My kids and this weekend

I have two beautifull kids one is almost 12 and the other is 3 years old, since the difference of age, it is a little dificult to please them equaly, one is way to attent he knows everything we plan and wherever is not going to work he also knows, the other is a pasive kid does not get in trouble, is patient but  sometimes I wish he could protect himself from the other, that is the dilema that my husband, and I have to deal with daily, for example this weekend it is my babies bithday, and we want to go to Hersheys park but it will not be something my big kid will enjoy that much,  instead he wants to go to the movies to see planet of the apes the movie, but my tiny one will get scare to much violance, I think we will end up going different places like sometimes we had to.