Juvenile delincuency

Juvenile delincuency, it is very complex to talk about juveniles that unfortunely follow the wrong path, sadly to say you never know when you can help them or be againt them, sometimes the way they act and express their feeling and needs surprises all the time, I have 2 boys myself and I adore them as well as I know one day they will grow an be juvenile it is scare when I think of them bigger than me and taller as well how will I protect them to make the right decisions,for a juvenile they are always right and wherever wrong that happens to them is a grown up fault, they only listen to a grown up when they are in trouble and need help to resolve it,I have to admit they are juveniles that are good listeners and are the few with more positive behavior and love for their relatives it also had to do with the way they were raise if they live in a house with values, respect and love, usually love and understanding is the key to our youngesters, always guide them talk to them about live in their language without complains sometimes it is neecesary not to mention what we need from them  but what they can do for themselves, aproach them without restrictions or too many lessons when we were little because that is the least they want to hear,aproach them with what they like their future, make planes, give them ideas of what life is about in reality,taking them to places to see what could happen if they follow the wrong, decitions, let them see what life brings them, I know is easy to say but that is why we are their parents we know our kids and if someone feels that they do not know their kids by know, then we have to work on it they are our kids we raise them we pamper them since babies, love them, what their first steps thir firt everything, get the pictures when they were little and let them feel the love is still there sometimes they need to hear it even if it does not look like,lets guide them ,I still have a lot to learn about boys but Iam learning to get my kids to the right direction.

Nature diet in my country

 I remenber when I used to go to the supermarket with my mother it was something I will not mind, if I was with her If I was alone I will for sure, we did have a good economy so she knew how to spend her money and how much the food at the street market cost, yes in this country is called a street market, like I mention she use to send me with the right amount of money so if I did not go to the places she will send me I was in trouble, or she will just  blame on me for the lost, however, if I would go with her it will be her deal, I have to admit the best part of getting food to my house was going to the farms and cropps, everyone knows each other an trade their vegetables without the need of giving any money, I use to think that was the coolest way and I will get to see and play with my friends as well, my parents are farmers and also have the  acces to trade except for meet now that will cost money and be a luxery only once a week or so, but we did not mind that much, because be live by the beach and the seafood is the best to my understanding the healthiest as well, it was aesy to get the seafood with your feed, there was a specific seafood that you feel it and grab it with your hands, it was delicious so besides going to the beach for a swim it was fun to bring the seafood for my favorite food it was at times tricky because you could also find the seecrab now that one was not fun to find, it would for sure be painfull but we were used to it ,I still remenber those days of my childhood , now that I think of it  it was really fun, I wish my kids could have the same experience one day.

My work

I have to start by writting how much work I have every week it is so overwhelm, right now I am planing my work ,the time for the kids, for my husband,what to say there is not time for my friend that is her birthay I guess a phone call will make it for now,I have to be at home the all day just to do my homework and pay the bills and set up the ride from and for my kid camp, on top I have to cancel my work for tomorrow I did cancel the restaurant today already, likeI said before lots of homework it seems that I repeat that word again,it is  on my calender every day,does not happen to you?. This country gives so many opportunities to progress to bring your family to a better economy in order to have wath you did not in your country,however it also means that you have to put your heart an sweat to it, my kids right now dont understand what I do in the computer to long and why I have to be away on weekends, but I hope one day to give them the confidence to live happy at least I will try, I will work on making sure their needs are cover by me,is funny my 11 year old knows I am not working in the restaurant today and he is making plans already,he does not know I have homework so my husband will keep him busy,like I have mention before my week is so busy that I have just the time to get home and warm up left overs on monday then tuesday it will be my husband and his magic, wed I think left overs from tuesday because he cooks a lot,thursday only God knows and the rest of the week still to plan, now that my kid is out from school I have to take both of them to work it is hard to say but I keep them with me 24/7 like my husband who works from 6 am to 7 pm and still helps me when he gets home, my schedule is to crazy I have only 1 day of a week but I love my work and like I mention they let me take my kids with me.

Fathers day

I just finish writting my blog and got erase again like the others before I am so frustrated that I feel like exploting,today fathers day is a disaster and this is the only way to express my feelings,my husband is  in such a bad mood that it makes me worse of what I am already,my morning has been a disaster I hope no one reads this I always work on mothers day and also today,saturdays and sundays are the busiest days for me I had so much homework to do and not enough time before I go to work, my husband is expecting a party i guess because he is so agraveted,I wanted to get him a wine and he got it himself yesterday IO can not get him flowers and I could not get him a card because I finish really late yesterday, plus on top of this my mother calls me  this morning regarding my sister that is taking advantage of her and her husband I have to mention this she is so luky that she is in (South America) only ghod knows what would happen to her if I was in front of her,on top of this I have a very busy day at work today tahat I have to fly to write my work and still do a lot of reading wich I did not finish and I have to rewrite this blog because the one before thi one is gone ,I think what ai really need is to go away at least for 5 days I dont know where to the moon if I could,the life in this country is to tired too complicated,work, kids, husband,I thinf I am tierd of all I need a good break,I will think about it,but now I have to rush to do my work before I get late for work and have to wake up my oldest kid who is still sleeping and did not even have breakfast I dont remenber if I mensios that I only have coffe in the mornings and I am a littlke dease already and besides thi I have to check on my baby that is playing outside with his dady instead of messing with my work.

Fathers day

Today is sunday, Fathers day just a regular day when some fathers are working, other relaxing in their home others just doing house shores like cutting grass, cleaning the yard, cleaning the garage, etc, while others like my husband are complaining for not having a party, my husband is so cranky that I did not even say happy fathers day,like some people I had to work last night till 10:30 and got home at 11:00pm , tired but I had to do my reading,then this morning I woke up and I am still reading and wait for the compurer to start working since is so slow,I have to go to work at 4:00pm till 10:00pm and fly home to write my work, so I have to seat on the computer and complain, besides I am already agraveded by it, my mother calls me to start an argument over my sister that takes advantage of the old parents she has and there is nothing I have to say to her since she is so far (South America),I sure to God she is so lucky that she is away, but like I was saying my mother gives my a good reason to be a mess now,and obvious mes up my day.Anyway going back to fathers day ,I did not make any plans for my husband because,first of all there is hardly time to even have breakfast coffe is only allow for me this morning,my oldest kid did not even wake up yet,plus I have to go to work and like I said before I have to work later,I have to work every saturday and sunday,so weekends there is not much change to do what I really want,but what I really want is to go away for at least 5 days I dont care the place I just want to go away,I work on mothers day and I had a card and flowers from my husband, I can not buy drink for hiom because he got his own last night and flowers he may think that I am trying to insult him a card I mean to get it yesterday but the store was close when I finish my work, so lets say I am a disaster today and I failure What else,he is mad at me already anyway he wont get worse.

In defense of food

It still surprises me,all the unknown information I had on the topic of food,very sad to find out that food companies not give you the value and respect we deserved as humans,when about selling unhealthy food to our kids to our family,becausa of this I have to be conserned everytime I go to the supermarket star by looking and matching prices bettween the organic, low-fat, low-carbohydrates, etc.The theme that amazes me the most will be the lyphid hypothesis,how it could be posible that people that followes it,ashly gets searious health consecuenses,usually ederly people think that this is the best way to keep them healthy when is killing them slowly.Another point will be the diet some used to have in the 1977 and 1982 related to cancer,while cutting on fats and eating carbohydrates with no control they star getting fatter.