Sunday, June 26, 2011

Juvenile delincuency

Juvenile delincuency, it is very complex to talk about juveniles that unfortunely follow the wrong path, sadly to say you never know when you can help them or be againt them, sometimes the way they act and express their feeling and needs surprises all the time, I have 2 boys myself and I adore them as well as I know one day they will grow an be juvenile it is scare when I think of them bigger than me and taller as well how will I protect them to make the right decisions,for a juvenile they are always right and wherever wrong that happens to them is a grown up fault, they only listen to a grown up when they are in trouble and need help to resolve it,I have to admit they are juveniles that are good listeners and are the few with more positive behavior and love for their relatives it also had to do with the way they were raise if they live in a house with values, respect and love, usually love and understanding is the key to our youngesters, always guide them talk to them about live in their language without complains sometimes it is neecesary not to mention what we need from them  but what they can do for themselves, aproach them without restrictions or too many lessons when we were little because that is the least they want to hear,aproach them with what they like their future, make planes, give them ideas of what life is about in reality,taking them to places to see what could happen if they follow the wrong, decitions, let them see what life brings them, I know is easy to say but that is why we are their parents we know our kids and if someone feels that they do not know their kids by know, then we have to work on it they are our kids we raise them we pamper them since babies, love them, what their first steps thir firt everything, get the pictures when they were little and let them feel the love is still there sometimes they need to hear it even if it does not look like,lets guide them ,I still have a lot to learn about boys but Iam learning to get my kids to the right direction.

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