Dream house

Buying a house in this country for all americans, and specially immigrats is called the dream  come trued, the same case we had a few years ago, whe we decided to buy our first house we were so afraid to take that step, the best part was not have the experience, so we were not aware of what was coming up in the future expences, we can of just did it worry,  and  ourconsern was our kid by then we only had one, but we had work at least we had a decent jobs, the first house we looked for it was big, and my husband love it because of the backyard  and size of the kitchen since he likes to cook, I was afraid of it beacuse it was to big and the backyard had to many branchs on the back, but my husband promise to make a safe house for our family so I accept it, we were going to sing up the clossing after 10 days of our decition and the destiny had something else planed for us, my husband looses his job and we had to cancel the clossing date till my husband gets a new job, by them the house went back to the market and our dream desapear after spendind some money on it; my husban was so frustrated that he blame on everyone the lost of the house, did not realizing that he was the one who lost his job, and it was no ones fault it took him a while to deal with his dream going away from his hands in less than 10 days.